Hi Maria,

Wondering if you can help me out. I have been with my narcissistic husband for 4 years now, we just married 5 months ago and he has already left me like 3 times. My husband has a place up north and just stays up there and only comes home for two days a week, and then I get the silent treatment. Well today, my husband gets up at 4am and starts packing his stuff to go up north again. He tells me he wants it over, apparently he thinks I was bad mouthing him to other people up North last weekend. Maybe I was a little because he treats me so badly! ( I know he is a narcissist, he is very verbally abusive. I thought getting married would help, I was thinking he wouldn't leave me every other month, but now it is worse and he Leaves every week).

Well my husband said he is done, he wants nothing to do with me. I asked if he was cheating he said no, and that obviously I was cheating because if people keep asking it is them that are cheating, is what he said. Every time he does this I get used to "well I guess it is over" and I try to get through and then he will go like 5 days and he will call me again, sometimes even saying he loves me but he is usually drunk and he will call the next morning and say he doesn't remember saying it. But then I end up getting back with him, he is my husband of only 5 months so of course I want it to work. (Click the link below to read the rest of this story).

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Dear Friend,

Thank you for your email. I also read your message on discussion forum regarding this same topic. I am sorry to hear what you have been going through. Regarding of whether your husband is seeing someone else, it is very difficult to know if that is the case. Since there is no clear evidence, it is better not to make guesses. There are so many other things that are so much more important. Please read my detailed reply to this email and to your post to forum from here: How to deal with a narcissistic husband - Reply.

To read more about how to get over cheating and narcissism, please visit page Recovery After Cheating and Narcissism.

Warm hug,

Maria

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